Rachel Cooke:
In the end, though, it's difficult to go along with Wolf's central
contention, which is that women can only harness their creativity when in a
fulfilled sexual relationship – a thesis based largely, it seems, on a reading
of Edith Wharton and
George Eliot,
and the relationship of Georgia O'Keeffe with Alfred Stieglitz. Her evidence is
crudely selective, and strangely unimaginative. Hasn't it ever occurred to her
that, sometimes, happiness writes white? Didn't she wonder about the sex lives
of art's great spinsters? But it's also, I think, an unhappily reductive way of
looking at the world. Sex is a huge part of life. But it's not everything, and
we do ourselves a disservice if we try to suggest otherwise.
(Guardian, September 16 2012, review of 'Vagina: A New Biography' by Naomi Wolf)
In middle class culture of
Maharashtra, water for recreational purpose is almost absent. Reasons are not hard to figure: Hardly any perennial lakes and rivers.
Contrast that with gardens built by the
Mughals in the
Islamic
style of architecture. Two of their most important features are running
water and a pool to reflect the beauties of sky and garden. No
Yamuna river, no
Taj Mahal perhaps.
When water, canoe, man, woman, moon come together
in the night, they mean romance and its occasional delightful
expression such as in the picture below.
Artist:
S D Phadnis (शि. द. फडणीस) courtesy:
Official website of S D Phadnis
I said romance but not sex.
I recently read "
Love Boats: The Delightfully Sinful History of Canoes".
"Before the youth of
America
fooled around at drive-ins and necked on Lover’s Lane, they coupled in
canoes. Boatloads of them. In the early 1900s, canoes offered randy
young guys and gals a means of escape to a semi-private setting, away
from the prying eyes of their pious Victorian chaperones...
...As further proof that canoeing had become a hotbed for
teenage delinquents, in 1913 the Minneapolis Parks Board refused to issue
permits for canoes with unpalatable names. Local newspapers published some of
the offensive phrases that slipped past the board the previous summer,
including “Thehelusa,” “Kumomin Kid,” “Kismekwik,” “Damfino,” “Ilgetu,”
“Aw-kom-in,” “G-I-Lov-U,” “Skwizmtyt,” “Ildaryoo,” “Win-kat-us,” “O-U-Q-T,”
“What the?,” “Joy-tub,” “Cupid’s Nest,” and “I Would Like to Try It.” The
commissioners unanimously agreed to outlaw phrases lacking obvious moral and
grammatical standards, though a few of these clever pre-text-message
abbreviations clearly had them scratching their heads...
...
But this floating, petting paradise would not
last. “When motorcars became more available in the early ’20s, courting in
canoes sort of fell off,” says (Roger) Young. “Guys were getting into their Model Ts or
Model As and going off with girls for a Sunday drive instead of canoeing.” And
what went on in the backseats of those cars? Well, that’s a whole different
story."
Following picture too has water, canoe,
man, woman, moon together. But the desires are less poetic and more
carnal than in the picture above!
A comic postcard advertising Old Town Canoes makes an open
joke of their preferred use.
Image courtesy:
Benson Gray
Go
back to Phadnis's picture above. I can't imagine man and woman in that
canoe making out little latter. I feel even suggestion of sex will
spoil that mood. But then maybe I am now old.